Anniversary June 6, 2007

The Best Decision I Ever Made

Every good thing in my life began with you.

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Our life in photos

Moments I Never Want To Forget

Not just the big days. The family days, the silly days, the proof that our ordinary life became something beautiful.

Family by a green Jeep
Couple selfie
Family portrait
Birthday celebration
Mom and daughter
Mom and baby
Dean and the boys at Disney
Shirlee holding a little hand at Disney
Family at Disney with matching ears
Disney elevator smiles
New baby hospital moment
Bath time laughter
Family couch with the kids
Lunch with Nana
Birthday girls
Little red coat smile
Mother daughter hug
Dean and daughter selfie
Kids after swimming

Ten reasons

10 Reasons I Love You

Every card could be a chapter. These are the things I see in you again and again: in our home, in our children, and in the way you keep choosing love.

01Your faith
02Your kindness
03Your strength
04Your patience
05Your laugh
06Your heart for our family
07Your wisdom
08Your loyalty
09Your beauty
10The way you make our house a home

Favorite memories

All The Little Forever Moments

A curated wall of memories.

Dean and Shirlee smiling together

What you have taught me

You Made Me Better At The Things That Matter

How to love unconditionally
How to be patient
How to trust God more deeply
How to serve others
How to find joy in simple moments

Our family

The Love We Built Together

Family portrait

Open letter to my wife

Shirlee,

I don't say this enough. Actually, I don't say it nearly enough, and that's on me. But I want you to know how much I see you, and how much I appreciate everything you pour into this family every single day.

The way you show up for our kids, the patience it takes to homeschool them, the thought you put into it, that's not something everyone could do. I watch you and I'm honestly in awe. You didn't have to take that on. You chose it because that's just who you are.

And the way you love me, even when I haven't always made it easy, that says everything about your character. I know my actions haven't always matched what's in my heart, and I want to change that. You deserve better from me and I'm committed to giving you that.

As a daughter, the effort you give there too, it doesn't go unnoticed. You carry a lot and you carry it with grace.

I really do believe God put you in my life on purpose. I would be lost without you. Not in a dramatic way, just genuinely, I don't know who I'd be. He knew what I needed before I did.

This anniversary, I want you to feel celebrated. Really celebrated. Not just acknowledged. You are remarkable, Shirlee, and it's not because everything is perfect. It's because your heart is good and it shows in everything you do.

I love you more than I know how to say. And I'll love you more next year than I do today.

Dean

The next 19 years

Still Choosing You, Every Day

Future adventures
Grandchildren
Travel
Growing old together
More family memories
Continued faith journey

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Happy 19th Anniversary

If I had a thousand lifetimes,
I would choose you in every one.

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